Friday, November 30, 2012

When I Forget Who I am in Christ



This is an adapted personal insight:.  Please, do not forget who you are in Christ!

When I Forget Who I Am In Christ

by Joanne Jung


When I forget who I am in Christ I doubt myself 
and I don’t always act with the characteristics of Christ.
I compare myself to my Christian friends and their relationships.
I get angry easier and I don’t forgive, as I should.

My relationships end up strained especially with my family 
and I hide things from my friends.
And because of the strain on my relationships I get upset,
which doesn’t help at all 
and I don’t want to admit my feelings or my wrong actions.

I essentially turn inward and “self – destruct”…
I have realized that when I forget who I am in Christ, 
I am a darker person.
I am angrier, and I feel all alone…
My relationships are fragile when I forget who I am in Christ,
I am short with people, I brush them aside.

When I forget who I am in Christ, I am ugly.
I can’t control my emotions and I seek to find temporary
and unneeded satisfaction in unnecessary things…
I close up my insides and lock it so no one can come in.
My relationships barely hold on by a thread. 
I am seriously and ultimately empty.
Low, down in the pits, a dull nagging that everything is never enough,
and just overall lost in what I am supposed to do.

Most of my relationships will also decline 
or become “me” or “sin” centered.
I tend to be frustrated and in a perpetual hectic mode 
in order to please my own selfish desires.
My relationships with people are bad.
I tend to be more selfish 
and less considerate of other people’s feelings.
I begin to be judgmental of things that are minor 
and try to challenge people in unhealthy ways.
When I forget who I am in Christ, I’m easily irritated with my family.

When I forget that I am complete in Christ, 
I seek fulfillment from the wrong things,
I seek to define my identity based on how I perceive myself, 
which is never satisfying.
 I am a lot more depressed, a lot angrier, more solitary, 
and definitely more confused. I look dead.
I don’t want to open up or become transparent with my friends.
I fight and argue with my friends. I hold grudges more and longer.

When I forget who I am in Christ, 
it brings out the worst in me (it brings out me).
I have a short fuse. I put myself first.
I am too proud to admit that I have issues that need to be addressed.
I fail to trust the Lord.
Then when I go out, 
I put on a mask to hide the reality of my struggles. 
I am like a tomb.

Wretched man that I am! Who will set me free from the body of this death?
Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord!
So then, on the one hand I myself with my mind am serving the law of God,
but on the other, with my flesh the law of sin.
Romans 7:24-25

For in Him all the fullness of Deity dwells in bodily form,
and in Him you have been made complete, and He is the head over all rule and authority;
Colossians 2:9-10

Who Likes to Wait? (Part 2)



As a continuation of what I started yesterday, here is the pondering about WAITING on the LORD:



Waiting on the Lord is trusting in God alone. 

In order to wait on the Lord, we must cast off all other objects of trust and rest in Him alone. Psalm 62:5 says, “My soul, wait in silence for God only, for my hope is from Him.” God has His way of stripping idols out of our lives so that He alone receives our attention. He is the God who will not share His glory with another. It might be trust in finances, people, good health, or our own plans, but waiting on the Lord means we must willingly abandon those things, or anything which replace trust in God.

Waiting on the Lord is the key to discerning God’s will. 

Psalm 25:4-5 says, “Make me know Your ways, O Lord; teach me Your paths. Lead me in Your truth and teach me for You are the God of my salvation; for You I wait all the day.” David knew that in order to know the will of God he must desire His guidance and wait for His leading with a teachable and submissive heart. Often times, God does not bring about what we believe to be His will until our hearts are completely surrendered and content in Him alone. As long as our determination is fixed upon what we want, God’s will remains a mystery. If we are not OBEDIENT to the truth that He has already revealed, why should He reveal more?

Waiting on the Lord is a confident expectation of His mercy and grace. 

Psalm 123:2 says, “Behold, as the eyes of servants look to the hand of their master, as the eyes of a maid to the hand of her mistress; so our eyes look to the LORD our God, until He shall be gracious to us.” When things are crazy and seemingly out of control, we must know and live in light of the character of God as being GRACIOUS and COMPASSIONATE and FULL OF MERCY. By WAITING on the LORD we can be confident that He will manifest His mercy because He is the God who has promised to never leave or forsake His own. We find REST in the sufficiency and fulness of His grace even when we cannot see His plan.

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Who Likes to Wait?



WHO LIKES TO WAIT?  
I don’t…and if we are honest, most of us would agree; waiting is the pits! And the truth is, we are born with an innate tendency to do what we want to do when we want to do it. Our flesh recoils at the thought of having to wait, and yet God’s Word commands us to wait on the Lord. Sometimes we think of waiting as sitting back, doing nothing until we are giving some kind of direction or sign from God as to what to do. However, biblically speaking, waiting is NOT a passive event.  In fact to WAIT requires a lot of EFFORT.  To wait requires the discipline of saying “no” to our impulsive, “got to have it now” natures and rather STRIVING to live in ACTIVE submission to the revealed WORD and WILL of GOD.  To wait on the LORD is an act of OBEDIENCE to Him.  Thus, not waiting on the LORD is disobedience.  

I have been forced to meditate or consider this discipline of WAITING on the LORD.  Over the next few days, I will post some of what I have found and thus have been pondering, praying over, struggling through and, hopefully finding victory with by the grace of God.  If this helps you, praise the LORD!  So here is my first devotional pondering about WAITING on the LORD.

Waiting on the Lord is HARD 
In Psalm 27:14 David wrote, “Wait for the LORD; be strong and let your heart take courage; yes, wait for the Lord.” Waiting on the Lord requires self-discipline. Rushing ahead to fulfill our own will is not difficult at all, it comes naturally, easily. However, surrendering to the will and ways of God, submitting to the authority of the Word, requires a constant resistance to the flesh. Self-denial is the daily duty of all those who claim to be disciples of Jesus. 

In Luke 9:23 Jesus said, “If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross daily and follow Me.” We must, therefore, be realistic and approach the concept of waiting on the Lord with a great deal of vigilance lest we usurp God’s timetable. At the same time, we must be careful not to use, “I am waiting on the Lord,” as an excuse for delayed obedience or a lack of self-discipline.  I shared this working definition of obedience with the youth group recently; doing God’s will; God’s way; right away!  Thus, waiting on the LORD is an act of obedience whereby I ACTIVELY pursue God and His ways, right away rather than default to me and my ways.  That is not easy, but it is my prayer!

Thursday, October 04, 2012

Your Role In Expository Preaching: Lesson One

(The following is Lesson 1 of our Home Bible Fellowship Study for October 4, 2012)


Your Role in Expository Preaching,
Part 1: Anticipation

“When we come to the Word preached, we come to a matter of the highest importance; therefore we should stir up ourselves and hear with the greatest devotion.” 
Thomas Watson, Heaven Taken by Storm

Have you ever arrived at church on Sunday in a, let’s call it, a less-than-ready condition for worship? Maybe you were up too late the night before, argued with your wife while getting ready, barked at the kids, kicked the dog. By the time you get to church, you’re truly not ready to listen to a sermon!

But getting your mind and heart ready is exactly what expository preaching requires. Listening to an expository sermon, really listening—as in thinking, praying, following the argument, concentrating on the meaning and its application to your life—that’s hard work.

Merely hearing a sermon is easy; it requires a properly functioning auditory system, but it’s essentially a passive exercise. Actively listening to the preaching of God’s Word requires mental alertness, focused attention, and a receptive heart. That’s the kind of listening Solomon implored his son to do:

My son, if you will receive my sayings, and treasure my commandments within you, make your ear attentive to wisdom, incline your heart to understanding; for if you cry for discernment, lift your voice for understanding; if you seek her as silver, and search for her as for hidden treasures…(Proverbs 2:1-4, emphasis mine)

That describes an activity that’s quite active, requiring energy and effort, and that’s exactly what God would have us do each Sunday when we sit down in the pew.
If the public proclamation of the Bible is the primary means of change in a believer’s life (and it is: 1 Cor. 1:18; 1 Tim. 4:13; 2 Tim. 3:16-17), then it’s vital that we get ourselves ready to listen. You’ve got to anticipate the sermon every week. Here’s how…

Prepare Your Attitude
Your basic outlook as a ready listener should be to identify yourself as the target of the message. In other words, put the bulls-eye on your own chest and expect the Spirit to bring conviction to your conscience. The whole purpose of sitting in the listener’s seat is exposure to the message for the purpose of personal confrontation, information, conviction, motivation, and transformation.

Your job is not to critique the preacher, evaluating how well he’s doing, how clever or interesting he is, or how well structured his sermon is. You’re not there to admire or criticize a piece of oratorical art. You are there to receive God’s Word personally from one of God’s ministers. The object of the preaching event is to anticipate change in your thinking, attitude, and behavior. You should eagerly prepare yourself with a high level of spiritual anticipation.

Prepare Your Body
Just before Jesus was betrayed, He asked His disciples to stand watch while He prayed in anticipation of the cross. Apparently, they were not physically ready to comply. “[Jesus] came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, ‘So, you men could not keep watch with Me for one hour? Keep watching and praying, that you may not enter into temptation; the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak’” (Matt. 26:40-41).

Yes, the flesh is weak. No argument there, right? With each passing year, our bodies grow older and weaker, becoming more of an impediment to our spiritual lives. We can stem the tide of physical decline, and its adverse affect on listening, by being in the best physical condition possible.

Your body works best with adequate rest, well-balanced meals, and proper exercise. “Adequate,” “well-balanced,” and “proper” will vary, depending on the person, but you’ve got to take these things seriously if you want your mind to be alert and ready to comprehend an expository sermon. This isn’t just a question of how you spend Saturday evenings and early Sunday mornings; it’s a question of your whole lifestyle.

Think about it. You don’t generally listen well when you are tired or hungry; your mind tends to drift and wander. That’s common when you haven’t been taking good care of your body. On the other hand, proper exercise and rest ensures good respiration and circulation that helps you stay awake and attentive. That’s essential for hearing God’s message in a refreshing and dynamic way.

Prepare Your Heart
Expository preaching is a spiritual event through which Almighty God Himself speaks His Word to the hearts of men and women so they can know, understand, and obey His will. That means prayer—open communion with the living God—is an essential element in getting your heart ready to hear what God wants to say to you. So get ready to listen by praying about two distinct, yet inseparable, subjects: pray for the preacher and pray for your understanding.

First of all, pray for the preacher as he communicates God’s message to you. In fact, Paul solicited prayer from others and considered it foundational to an effective apostolic ministry (cf. Rom. 15:30-32; Eph. 6:19; Col. 4:2-4; 1 Thess. 5:25; 2 Thess. 3:1). Gardiner Spring shares Paul’s sentiment when he says,

If a people are looking for rich sermons from their minister, their prayers must supply him with the needed material; if they seek for faithful sermons, their prayers must urge him, by a full and uncompromising manifestation of the truth, to commend himself to every man’s conscience in the sight of God (see 2 Corinthians 4:2). If God’s people are going to expect powerful and successful sermons, their prayers must make him a blessing to the souls of men! (Gardiner Spring, A Plea to Pray for Pastors, 3)

Your prayer life is essential to the effectiveness of the expository sermon. And don’t you think your fervent prayers for your pastor will help you to listen more effectively in anticipation of what God will say to you through his sermon? You’ll be looking for the answer to your prayers every Sunday!

The second subject of your preparatory prayers should be for understanding, that God would give you the ability to comprehend what He communicates through the preacher. That’s how Paul prayed on behalf of others. He said, “I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you may know” your hope, your riches, and God’s power toward you (Eph. 1:18-19). Paul also prayed, “that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding,” so that you’ll grow in Christ and please God.

Want an example, a model to follow? As you anticipate the next sermon you hear, follow the prayer of the psalmist: “Deal bountifully with Your servant, that I may live and keep Your Word. Open my eyes, that I may behold wonderful things from Your law” (Ps. 119:17-18). When you pray that way from the heart, God will answer and teach you what pleases Him through your pastor’s preaching ministry.

Armed with a ready attitude, a rested and healthy body, and a tuned-up prayer life, you’ll be ready to do the hard work of listening to good expository preaching. God will bless and prosper you, equipping you to do the work of the ministry.

There’s more to say about your role in expository preaching, so don’t go away. In the next installment, I’ll aim to get your attention as we focus on the preaching event itself.

Adapted from the Epilogue, by Lance Quinn, in Rediscovering Expository Preaching, edited by John MacArthur, ©1992, used by permission.
Questions:
(Please begin by looking up the Bible verses cited in the lesson and apply them as much as possible in answering the questions)


  1. What is the public proclamation of the Bible is the primary means of? According to the verses provided, how is this so?






  1. What is your job as a listener?  What is NOT your job as a listener?






  1. How does taking care of your body play a part in your ability to rightly listen to sermon?





  1. What needs to be our common practice in preparation for hearing a sermon and what two things are to be the primary subject of that practice?